Black Friday: A Divorce from Overspending

Black Friday, the annual shopping extravaganza, often mirrors the rollercoaster of emotions in a relationship—thrills, excitement, impulse decisions, and sometimes, regrettable outcomes. And a Divorce, a process often associated with emotional turmoil and financial strain, isn't something you'd typically find on a Black Friday shopping list.

So instead, let’s unravel the correlations between Black Friday sales and the ups and downs of divorce proceedings.

The Honeymoon Phase:

Ah, the anticipation leading up to Black Friday! Just like the initial phase of a relationship, the buildup is filled with excitement, grand expectations, and a dash of frenzy. We're wooed by flashy ads, promising huge discounts and irresistible deals. Similarly, at the start of a marriage, there's the honeymoon phase—a time of promise, enchantment, and boundless possibilities.

The Impulse Splurge:

Much like an impromptu Vegas wedding, Black Friday shopping can lead to impulsive buying decisions. You spot an eye-catching deal, and suddenly, that 90-inch TV seems like a necessity rather than a luxury. In a parallel universe, impulsive decisions during a divorce might involve hastily hiring the most aggressive lawyer or making irrational demands without considering the consequences.

The Buyer's Remorse vs. Divorce Regret:

Post-Black Friday blues often bring "Buyer's Remorse." You snagged that discount, but now you're staring at the credit card bill, wondering if you truly needed that inflatable unicorn float. Similarly, in the aftermath of a divorce, there might be moments of "Divorce Regret" where you question if it was the right decision. Both instances involve reflecting on choices made amidst fervor and wondering if they were truly worth it.

Bargaining and Negotiations:

Black Friday isn't just about the initial purchase; it's about the bargaining. Negotiating for even more discounts, trying to stack coupons, or persuading the cashier for an additional markdown—sounds a bit like divorce settlement negotiations, doesn't it? The back-and-forth tug of war trying to get the best deal mirrors the negotiations in a divorce settlement, striving for the best outcome in the midst of emotional tension.

Finding Closure:

Finally, as Black Friday draws to a close, there's a sense of relief mixed with exhaustion. The adrenaline rush fades, and you're left with your purchases, questioning if the stress was worth it. Similarly, the finalisation of a divorce brings closure. There might be a mix of emotions—relief, sadness, and uncertainty about the future—but ultimately, there's a sense of closure and a new beginning.

So, this Black Friday, as you navigate through the chaos of sales and deals, remember that much like a divorce, it's essential to approach it with caution and mindfulness. Enjoy the thrill but avoid the pitfalls of impulsive decisions that might lead to a regretful aftermath.

Remember, relationships with your savings account are just as important as relationships with others. Happy shopping and here's to making thoughtful, savvy choices this Black Friday!

PS. If Divorce is on your Black Friday shopping list, I can help you obtain a Divorce for a fixed fee of $600 (+GST) for a joint application*. At the same time and without additional charge, I can give you guidance as to anything else you need to do from a family law perspective.

*the court filing fee, third party costs or additional applications not included in fixed fee.