V-Day ❤️ vs D-day 💔
Love is in the air, or is it the sound of papers being shredded? Ah, February, the month of romance, adorned with hearts, flowers, and the ever-anticipated Valentine's Day. But wait, there's another day lurking around the corner, one that might not be as cheerful but deserves some attention nonetheless – Divorce Day, or as we affectionately call it, D-Day.
Are there comparisons? Of course...
Preparation:
V-Day: The anticipation begins weeks in advance. Gift hunting, dinner reservations, and crafting the perfect heartfelt message are all part of the preparation. It's a celebration of love, romance, and grand gestures.
D-Day: Preparation might involve lawyer consultations (you can book a free chat with us), emotional support from friends, and ensuring you have a good playlist ready for some post-breakup karaoke therapy. It may not have the same glitz and glamour, but there's certainly an air of preparation. Lawyers are on standby, paperwork is being gathered, and emotions are running high.
Attire:
V-Day: It's all about dressing to impress. That little black dress or dapper suit comes out of the closet, along with those killer heels or sharp shoes.
D-Day: Comfort is key. Sweatpants, oversized hoodies, and fuzzy socks make up the uniform for weathering the emotional storm. Some may look to combine this with watching MAFS to make their life seem somewhat better than the fake reality TV marriages.
Gifts:
V-Day: Chocolates, flowers, jewelry – the classics never fail to impress. Personalised gifts that speak to your partner's interests are also a big hit.
D-Day: Perhaps a bottle of wine (or two), gift card for some well deserved self-care treatments, and completing your online Divorce Application. There is no better time to “Treat Yo’ Self”!
Activities:
V-Day: Candlelit dinners, romantic strolls, or cozy movie nights in – the options are endless for creating cherished memories.
D-Day: Netflix marathons, ice cream binges, and spontaneous dance parties in your living room. Sometimes laughter is the best medicine. (Perhaps making our Candy Hearts, pictured above!)
Social Media:
V-Day: Prepare for an influx of lovey-dovey posts flooding your timeline. Couples declaring their undying love with #RelationshipGoals.
D-Day: Radio silence or a carefully crafted statement about moving forward with grace and gratitude. And proudly update that Relationship Status to “Divorced”.
Emotions:
V-Day: Love, excitement, butterflies – it's a rollercoaster of emotions, but all in the name of romance.
D-Day: D-Day is a whirlwind of emotions of a different kind. Sadness, anger, relief—divorce brings a mix of feelings, from mourning the loss of a relationship to embracing the freedom of a new chapter. But also, a chance to focus on self-love.
Aftermath:
V-Day: The warm fuzzies linger, memories are made, and bonds are strengthened. V-Day is a reminder to cherish the love in your life—be it romantic, platonic, or familial. It's a day to celebrate connection, kindness, and the joy of human relationships.
D-Day: Similarly, D-Day serves as a reminder of the resilience of the human spirit. While divorce may mark the end of one chapter, it also paves the way for new beginnings, growth, and self-discovery.
In the end, whether you're celebrating V-Day with your significant other or navigating the waters of D-Day with legal documents and emotional support, remember to cherish the love in your life, whether it's romantic or self-love. And hey, if all else fails, there's always discounted chocolates on February 15th!
So here's to love, laughter, and navigating life's twists and turns with a healthy dose of humour.
Happy V-Day, D-Day, and everything in between!
